What Wording Should I Use for My Wedding Invitations?

 

Planning a wedding can be an exciting yet overwhelming experience, and choosing the right wording for your wedding invitations is no exception. At Ivory & Ink Weddings, we specialise in creating bespoke wedding stationery to suit every couple’s style and vision. One of the most common questions we get asked is: “What wording should we use for our wedding invitations?”

 

In this blog post, we’ll guide you through the essentials of invitation wording, from traditional and formal styles to modern and casual approaches. Let us help you find the perfect way to share your special day with your loved ones.

 

Why Is Wedding Invitation Wording Important?

 

The wording on your wedding invitation sets the tone for your event. Whether you’re hosting a black-tie evening or a relaxed outdoor celebration, the language you use gives guests an idea of what to expect. It also provides crucial details, including the date, time, location, and RSVP instructions.

 

Clear and thoughtful wording ensures your guests feel informed and excited to attend your wedding.

 

What to Include on Your Wedding Invitations

 

Regardless of your style, every wedding invitation should include the following key information:

1. The Hosts

Traditionally, the names of the hosts (e.g., the couple, their parents, or both) are listed at the top.

Example:

“Together with their families, [Your Name] and [Your Partner’s Name] request the pleasure of your company…”

2. The Couple’s Names

Make sure your names are front and centre, as this is your moment to shine.

3. The Date and Time

Be clear about when the celebration will take place.

Example:

“Saturday, the tenth of February, two thousand twenty-four, at four o’clock in the afternoon.”

4. The Venue

Include the full name and address of the ceremony and reception locations.

5. RSVP Details

Specify how and when guests should RSVP.

6. Dress Code (Optional)

If your event has a specific dress code, include this detail to help guests plan accordingly.

 

Traditional Wedding Invitation Wording

 

If your wedding is formal or you’d like a timeless feel, traditional wording is a great choice.

Example:

 

Together with their families

[Your Name] and [Your Partner’s Name]

request the honour of your presence

at their wedding ceremony

on [Day, Date, Year]

at [Time]

at [Venue Name], [Location].

Reception to follow.

 

This classic format adds a touch of elegance and suits more formal weddings.

 

Modern Wedding Invitation Wording

 

For couples who prefer a more relaxed and contemporary style, modern wording works beautifully.

Example:

 

[Your Name] & [Your Partner’s Name]

are getting married!

Join us to celebrate

on [Day, Date, Year]

at [Time]

at [Venue Name], [Location].

Dinner, drinks, and dancing to follow.

 

This approach is perfect for casual weddings or couples who want to keep things simple.

 

Unique and Personalised Wording Ideas

 

If you want your invitations to reflect your personality as a couple, consider adding unique touches:

• Quotes or Lyrics: Include a favourite quote, song lyric, or poem that resonates with your relationship.

• Playful Language: For example, “We’re tying the knot, and we want you there!”

• Cultural Elements: Incorporate cultural phrases or traditions to make your invitations more meaningful.

 

At Ivory & Ink Weddings, we work with couples to craft custom wording that feels authentic and special.

 

Tips for Choosing the Perfect Wording

 

1. Match Your Theme: Align your wording with your wedding style and tone.

2. Keep It Clear: Ensure all essential details are easy to understand.

3. Proofread Thoroughly: Double-check for typos, spelling errors, and accuracy.

4. Seek Professional Advice: Work with an experienced stationery designer, like us, to perfect your invitations.

 

Ready to Create Your Dream Wedding Invitations?

 

At Ivory & Ink Weddings, we believe every detail matters. Our personalised wedding stationery services ensure your invitations are as beautiful as your love story. Whether you prefer traditional elegance or modern charm, we’ll help you find the right wording to wow your guests.

 

Contact us today to start designing your dream wedding invitations.

 

This guide has everything you need to create the perfect invitations for your big day. If you’d like expert advice or custom designs, reach out to Ivory & Ink Weddings for professional and friendly assistance.